Comments on: Working things out http://blog.domsublove.com/2010/03/22/working-things-out/ More than just BDSM - it's real life Thu, 25 Mar 2010 03:20:58 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: desiree http://blog.domsublove.com/2010/03/22/working-things-out/comment-page-1/#comment-613 desiree Wed, 24 Mar 2010 12:42:23 +0000 http://blog.domsublove.com/?p=465#comment-613 Thanks for the advice. I'll certainly keep that in mind. Thanks for the advice. I’ll certainly keep that in mind.

]]> By: Mick and Molly http://blog.domsublove.com/2010/03/22/working-things-out/comment-page-1/#comment-611 Mick and Molly Wed, 24 Mar 2010 00:44:49 +0000 http://blog.domsublove.com/?p=465#comment-611 it is hard and not sure that I handled myself well at the time. I also (even nearly two years later) let it enter my thoughts sometimes. The best piece of advice is one that someone gave to me that I think about when I am getting nuts which is "if you are going to give S and your relationship a chance, don't wreck it with constant negative thoughts. And, truly give it a chance." It is also a good thing for you to spend time with friends and others who lift your spirits. it is hard and not sure that I handled myself well at the time. I also (even nearly two years later) let it enter my thoughts sometimes. The best piece of advice is one that someone gave to me that I think about when I am getting nuts which is “if you are going to give S and your relationship a chance, don’t wreck it with constant negative thoughts. And, truly give it a chance.” It is also a good thing for you to spend time with friends and others who lift your spirits.

]]> By: desiree http://blog.domsublove.com/2010/03/22/working-things-out/comment-page-1/#comment-608 desiree Tue, 23 Mar 2010 13:27:39 +0000 http://blog.domsublove.com/?p=465#comment-608 Mistress - What were some of the ways you got yourself through the situation? Right now, I feel like a pendulum, going between stages of "it's good right now" and "I don't know if I want to deal with this". To his credit, S has made a very good effort to allow me to vent my frustrations, anger and thoughts. That has helped. He's vowed to never ever make the same mistake again, but it's still too fresh in my mind to take him at his word. Mistress – What were some of the ways you got yourself through the situation? Right now, I feel like a pendulum, going between stages of “it’s good right now” and “I don’t know if I want to deal with this”.

To his credit, S has made a very good effort to allow me to vent my frustrations, anger and thoughts. That has helped. He’s vowed to never ever make the same mistake again, but it’s still too fresh in my mind to take him at his word.

]]> By: Mistress http://blog.domsublove.com/2010/03/22/working-things-out/comment-page-1/#comment-605 Mistress Mon, 22 Mar 2010 22:33:39 +0000 http://blog.domsublove.com/?p=465#comment-605 Hi D, I am sorry to hear about your troubles. It does sound like you are thinking straight though! Mick and I did go through our own issues (going on two year's ago now), so I know how you feel. I agree with you on the total trust piece -- especially with what he asks of you re: being his slave. All I can say is to be vigilant and that he needs to prove that you are all that he wants. Molly Hi D,
I am sorry to hear about your troubles. It does sound like you are thinking straight though! Mick and I did go through our own issues (going on two year’s ago now), so I know how you feel. I agree with you on the total trust piece — especially with what he asks of you re: being his slave. All I can say is to be vigilant and that he needs to prove that you are all that he wants.
Molly

]]> By: desiree http://blog.domsublove.com/2010/03/22/working-things-out/comment-page-1/#comment-604 desiree Mon, 22 Mar 2010 16:59:15 +0000 http://blog.domsublove.com/?p=465#comment-604 Thanks. I know you've had your own share of trials as well. I just wish there was a crystal ball we could look into to see if our decisions today are wise or foolish.... As it is though, we make our choices and hope for the best. Thanks. I know you’ve had your own share of trials as well. I just wish there was a crystal ball we could look into to see if our decisions today are wise or foolish….

As it is though, we make our choices and hope for the best.

]]> By: Amber http://blog.domsublove.com/2010/03/22/working-things-out/comment-page-1/#comment-603 Amber Mon, 22 Mar 2010 15:37:32 +0000 http://blog.domsublove.com/?p=465#comment-603 Sweetie, I'm so sorry that you are going through this. Just keep your head up and do what is right for you. Know that there are others out here who care about you. Sweetie, I’m so sorry that you are going through this. Just keep your head up and do what is right for you. Know that there are others out here who care about you.

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