Comments on: a betrayal of trust http://blog.domsublove.com/2010/03/18/a-betrayal-of-trust/ More than just BDSM - it's real life Thu, 25 Mar 2010 03:20:58 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: desiree http://blog.domsublove.com/2010/03/18/a-betrayal-of-trust/comment-page-1/#comment-619 desiree Thu, 25 Mar 2010 03:20:58 +0000 http://blog.domsublove.com/?p=448#comment-619 Thanks finbar. I’m trying to work on what I can learn from this situation, rather than feeling like a victim. Sorry to hear that you’ve had a similar difficult situation. Thanks finbar. I’m trying to work on what I can learn from this situation, rather than feeling like a victim.

Sorry to hear that you’ve had a similar difficult situation.

]]> By: finbar http://blog.domsublove.com/2010/03/18/a-betrayal-of-trust/comment-page-1/#comment-616 finbar Thu, 25 Mar 2010 02:28:42 +0000 http://blog.domsublove.com/?p=448#comment-616 well, im sorry that you are living through a betrayal of trust. i have had the same experience, but i deliberately broke into her email, because i knew that something was going on, and like you, i discovered enough to break my heart. there are time when i think that i would have been happier if i never knew, but ultimately it is better to know. that was some time ago, and our relationship has still not recovered, probably because once trust is broken it is almost impossible to repair. our relationship has limped on, sometimes getting better, but it always seems that something happens that damages the trust being built and we end up having to start over. i have been through a lot of heart ache, and a lot of pain, but i believe in the relationship that i have, but it is hard to learn to trust again. it is such a fragile thing! and once broken it will never return to its original state. i seem to always be suspicious, when that will end i dont know. i hope that you can repair your relationship, and learn to trust again. it will take strength and determination and a lot of work from both of you! i wish you all the best in copping with this terrible situation. finbar well, im sorry that you are living through a betrayal of trust.

i have had the same experience, but i deliberately broke into her email, because i knew that something was going on, and like you, i discovered enough to break my heart.
there are time when i think that i would have been happier if i never knew, but ultimately it is better to know.

that was some time ago, and our relationship has still not recovered, probably because once trust is broken it is almost impossible to repair.

our relationship has limped on, sometimes getting better, but it always seems that something happens that damages the trust being built and we end up having to start over.

i have been through a lot of heart ache, and a lot of pain, but i believe in the relationship that i have, but it is hard to learn to trust again. it is such a fragile thing! and once broken it will never return to its original state.

i seem to always be suspicious, when that will end i dont know.

i hope that you can repair your relationship, and learn to trust again. it will take strength and determination and a lot of work from both of you!

i wish you all the best in copping with this terrible situation.

finbar

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