Mexico = changes in latitude and attitude

Though we packed some of the D/s “tools”, they were neglected during our time of sunshine, beaches and tropical drinks. It was a break from reality and a much-needed escape. It did provide for some interesting perspective though as well as instigating a change from the existing dynamics.

Master S clearly enjoys the pain sensation. Though He does get some pleasure from inflicting me with the sensation, it’s not as satisfying for Him. We’ve played around with it enough to know that He desires to be the one receiving the pain. He’s experienced it in the past at the hands of others, but never has incorporated it into a stable, committed relationship. Here’s where the shift of dynamics comes into play…

After having been on the receiving end and experiencing it myself, I have a firmer understanding of how it feels, how much is enough and which techniques produce certain results. It’s only by having this first-hand knowledge that I now feel I can start utilizing Master’s body in the way He wants.

Whether it’s using a cane to strike his cock, or gentle abrading techniques on his genital area, or even employing clips and clamps wherever my fancy leads.

But by doing so, He’s handing over the physical control to me. I’m directing Him now on that level – and to be quite honest – it feels good. At the same time, I guarantee that my needs are filled and am able to spot the times he’s “controlling from the bottom” (which He’s quite good at).  Though He is disappointed when I do things a bit differently at times, He realizes it’s part of His role now to be accepting. It’s good practice for Him indeed.

Yes, I realize I’m still using a capital “H” for Him and His, etc.  It’s a sign of my respect as well as acknowledgement that the full transfer of power over to me hasn’t been made at this time.

So we’ll be continuing our journey in a fluid manner, forming this relationship to meet our own unique needs rather than following a “D/s Handbook” of thou’s and thou shalt not’s.

This is still our story…and it’s ever-evolving.