Okay, a bit of an update on what’s been going on. It’s been pretty quiet on our blog due to a situation which has required a bit of energy.
Last week, my left breast started to swell. Though having bigger breasts wouldn’t be a bad thing, having just one that’s bigger isn’t all that appealing. So i went to the doctor….who put me on a round of antibiotics. i figured that would be the end of the story, but it wasn’t.
Things didn’t improve and we began noticing “hard” spots in a short amount of time. Not good. So a few more tests and a biopsy was done. For most of us, “biopsy” is synonymous with the “C” word. We’d have to wait for the test results.
Master S was wonderful through this whole process. This situation is a true test of character. He let me know that He’s here for the long haul, even though we have no binding or legal commitment to each other. i didn’t think i could love Him more than i already do, but His depth brought us even closer.
“It doesn’t matter how this all turns out, we’re in it together.” These words and His actions mean more than any flowers or diamonds ever could. When i’m with Master, i know someone has my back.
So we waited for the phone to ring with the news, whatever it may be.
Today we found out. Apparently there’s an abscess – quite a large one – which requires surgery. i feel fortunate as this could have been so much worse….and that i have Master S by my side.
He assured me that no matter how it turns out – if there’s any scarring or disfiguring – that He’s here for me. And it’s perhaps a good thing that he’s not a “boob man”. J
So anyway, we’re meeting with the surgeon tomorrow. Surgery will likely be scheduled Thursday or Friday due to the rapid progression of this thing.
Again, i’m blessed to have Master with me. He’s been presented with a scary set of circumstances…and showed integrity and commitment.
More updates later.
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Good luck guys. we will be thinking and sending good vibes…
Thank you. Your good wishes are much appreciated.
Best of luck with it all – its wonderful to hear stories like that where the Dominant is so supportive and loving even when things look bad
Thanks b! When in a full-time D/s situation, there should be a deep level of sharing and communication. If that isn’t in place, then it’s merely a caricature and somewhat shallow.
I do consider myself so very fortunate with Master S. I read on someone’s blog that a Master needs to tend to His/Her slave as they would their most prized possession. It’s with this type of careful attention that the Master reaps the most benefits.
I embrace Master with all his interesting views and nuances, as much as he indulges my musings.
It works for us, even during trying times.
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