Comments on: enduring pain – a slave’s perspective http://blog.domsublove.com/2009/12/15/dealing-with-pain/ More than just BDSM - it's real life Thu, 25 Mar 2010 03:20:58 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: desiree http://blog.domsublove.com/2009/12/15/dealing-with-pain/comment-page-1/#comment-252 desiree Wed, 16 Dec 2009 14:47:01 +0000 http://blog.domsublove.com/?p=289#comment-252 At first glance, it appears that most subs enjoy pain...thus their reason to be in the lifestyle. Upon further investigation, a lot of people who enjoy pain are more into the occasional scene, not so much the bdsm lifestyle. Master S has been good at demanding my reasons for being here. He wants to know why i'd choose this when there are other (most likely easier) options. It caused a bit of soul-searching which was then furthered by Mick's question on pride. So thanks for that! At first glance, it appears that most subs enjoy pain…thus their reason to be in the lifestyle. Upon further investigation, a lot of people who enjoy pain are more into the occasional scene, not so much the bdsm lifestyle. Master S has been good at demanding my reasons for being here. He wants to know why i’d choose this when there are other (most likely easier) options. It caused a bit of soul-searching which was then furthered by Mick’s question on pride.

So thanks for that!

]]> By: slave b http://blog.domsublove.com/2009/12/15/dealing-with-pain/comment-page-1/#comment-248 slave b Tue, 15 Dec 2009 19:04:06 +0000 http://blog.domsublove.com/?p=289#comment-248 I agree with Mick, very well written. I personally have a similar view of how I deal with the pain, and while I don't enjoy the sensation of the pain itself, its the fact that Mistress has control and can cause that pain, and chooses to do so, thats what does it for me. The pain emphasises my lack of control, my helplessness, and that feeling is incredible for me I agree with Mick, very well written.

I personally have a similar view of how I deal with the pain, and while I don’t enjoy the sensation of the pain itself, its the fact that Mistress has control and can cause that pain, and chooses to do so, thats what does it for me. The pain emphasises my lack of control, my helplessness, and that feeling is incredible for me

]]> By: Mick and Molly http://blog.domsublove.com/2009/12/15/dealing-with-pain/comment-page-1/#comment-247 Mick and Molly Tue, 15 Dec 2009 18:20:51 +0000 http://blog.domsublove.com/?p=289#comment-247 A very beautiful and well considered response. Thanks Desiree. I wonder if I can ever get over my wise guy prose style and get this deep. I guess my writing is for the entertainment of Mistress and our small band of followers. It reveals a lot of action but not much feeling. It's hard to be as honest about your feelings as you are in this blog on a regular basis. Bravo. A very beautiful and well considered response. Thanks Desiree.

I wonder if I can ever get over my wise guy prose style and get this deep. I guess my writing is for the entertainment of Mistress and our small band of followers. It reveals a lot of action but not much feeling. It’s hard to be as honest about your feelings as you are in this blog on a regular basis. Bravo.

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