Comments on: Dec 2nd…a “felony” http://blog.domsublove.com/2009/12/06/dec-2nd-a-felony/ More than just BDSM - it's real life Thu, 25 Mar 2010 03:20:58 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: desiree http://blog.domsublove.com/2009/12/06/dec-2nd-a-felony/comment-page-1/#comment-221 desiree Mon, 07 Dec 2009 14:13:26 +0000 http://blog.domsublove.com/?p=197#comment-221 That's definitely a conundrum. Master has a bit of a sadistic streak...yet he's also cognizant of my well-being. Needless to say, i was able to do a bit of negotiating which helped mitigate the circumstances to a degree. At times this weekend, i definitely didn't care much for Master S while "in the moment" of discipline. He understands that and does end each session with an extraordinary amount of after-care. For that, i'm grateful. Otherwise, resentment would grow rather than dissipate. For someone like myself, who's used to being on her own, it requires a great amount of trust to be in this type of relationship...placing myself in someone else's hands. Master does a good job ensuring that all is well especially during the more stressful times. i'll leave it to Him to blog the events of the weekend from His perspective. My journal will hold my thoughts for now, allowing me to sort through them later. But yes, he did show compassion. That’s definitely a conundrum. Master has a bit of a sadistic streak…yet he’s also cognizant of my well-being. Needless to say, i was able to do a bit of negotiating which helped mitigate the circumstances to a degree.

At times this weekend, i definitely didn’t care much for Master S while “in the moment” of discipline. He understands that and does end each session with an extraordinary amount of after-care. For that, i’m grateful. Otherwise, resentment would grow rather than dissipate.

For someone like myself, who’s used to being on her own, it requires a great amount of trust to be in this type of relationship…placing myself in someone else’s hands. Master does a good job ensuring that all is well especially during the more stressful times.

i’ll leave it to Him to blog the events of the weekend from His perspective. My journal will hold my thoughts for now, allowing me to sort through them later.

But yes, he did show compassion.

]]> By: Mick and Molly http://blog.domsublove.com/2009/12/06/dec-2nd-a-felony/comment-page-1/#comment-220 Mick and Molly Mon, 07 Dec 2009 13:57:49 +0000 http://blog.domsublove.com/?p=197#comment-220 Hoping that the need of discipline for this transgression is tempered by mercy. Hoping that the need of discipline for this transgression is tempered by mercy.

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