A recurring topic between Myself and desiree is how to structure our finances. Even though we’re not currently married, we are living together and are totally committed to each other and to making our Dom/sub relationship work. But how should the finances be handled? I am a high-earning professional who makes enough money to pay our living expenses, with enough left over to make mortgage payments on a house that I cannot sell to save my soul. I also make alimony payments to an ex. So money is really not the problem.
Desiree, on the other hand, is a freelance copywriter who is working on many projects, but none of which, at this time, are producing much of an income. So she is somewhat reliant on me to help her make ends meet.
There are many financial and practical questions that come to mind as I further enslave desiree. One of the largest is, as a slave…should she be able to have access to any money?
I feel that the answer should be “no”, and she is in agreement. A slave should be totally reliant on her Master to support her, so the financial details are what we are working on today. We’re transferring all of her automatic withdrawals to my checking account and I am paying all other bills for her as well. She does not currently have a credit or debit card, so I don’t have to cancel any of those accounts.
She does have a business and personal checking account which we will close, so that all money will be deposited into my personal checking account. She will not have access to this money. There’s a relatively small amount of money in a 401k, which we have decided will require a double signature to withdraw any of those funds.
She was worried about having emergency funds available should the need arise. To solve this problem, I’ll apply for another credit card which will have a small credit limit. This will allow her access for any unforeseen situations. But I will receive the monthly statement to make sure that no transactions take place.
To complete the financial picture, desiree does have approximately $15,000 in debt from a previous marriage. I’ll also pay these, but to help reduce her debt she’s agreed to sell me all of her assets. That money will be used to pay down the debt.
I’m also a firm believer that a slave should own no possessions, so her selling everything to me will help to complete her enslavement. We’re still working out the arrangements for the asset purchase, but there will be a bill of sale so that there will be no legal issues with the ownership.
Obviously, this is a great leap of faith for desiree. To totally have nothing is indeed scary. But for her to feel completely enslaved, this must be accomplished. On my side, I realize that I’m taking on a major responsibility, one which I do not take lightly. She trusts me to take care of her, and to not “screw her” in the end. The reward, for my efforts, is owning desiree.

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